Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

A woman feels hurt that her in-laws still refuse to use her last name after 12 years of marriage. Dear Abby shares advice on ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years. We have a beautiful family — a 12-year-old daughter and a ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

When my husband and I wed, we were in our 30s, we both had established careers, owned our own homes and lived complete lives.

She and my kids have never gotten along. She has always been resentful and angry about any attention I give them.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

My husband and I have been happily married for 12 years. We have a beautiful family — a 12-year-old daughter and a ...

Dear Wrong Name: You obviously don’t have a close relationship with your in-laws, and I’m sure there is more than one reason for it. If you raise the issue of how the envelope is addressed, it will ...

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.

Dear Abby: When my ex-wife died recently, she left our two children (in their 20s and 30s) a home that was in her name. My ...