The Friends theme song famously proclaimed “Ill be there for you” but, it turns out, that outside of the famous sitcom, the stars of Friends weren’t really hanging out all the time. In a new interview on the podcast Dinner’s On Me,

During an appearance on Dax Shepard’s “Armchair Expert” podcast, “Friends” star Lisa Kudrow shared that the “six-way relationship” shared among cast members Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Matt LeBlanc, David Schwimmer, Matt LeBlanc, the late Matthew Perry and Kudrow “took some work.” The key, she said, was in their communication.

The episode where Phoebe got married is on, and I’m watching it, and I got so caught up that I cried watching her, ‘cause she looked so happy! She had such a real smile. She was just, I’ve never seen Phoebe that happy.